Thankyou I really needed to hear that
looks like his life is crumbling. His lovely GF called me today, begged us not too charge him. He told her he only used the card to put a tank of gas in, and that he tried to pay us back. Oh the lies. She then proceeded to tell me he has been lying for weeks, and drinking too much. The truth is she needs to move on with her life he will only drag her down. Its none of our business breaks my heart. I really didn't say much to her on the phone.His ever so balanced life is not working for him anymore, the lies, the manipulation. I know its the addiction but they make me ill, they are like tornadoes that steam roll over innocent people and cause chaos wherever they go. His GF is one of the kindest sweetest people we know.