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Old 09-18-2014, 08:29 AM
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OGK
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"My memory of my childhood is mostly good. It is vague.", LSC1.

This is how I viewed my childhood as well but mostly because I took great pride in building up a fortress to imagine it to be, mostly good and "deceptively" vague. Just MY perspective on your thoughts, not assuming that to be the case for you, respectfully. Although I scored 100% on ANY quiz related to childhood trauma/abuse and dysfunction, the traits or scores remained a label for a while as I used that info. to simply place blame on the actors. Real progress for me started to come when I could connect certain REAL childhood events to the traits I identified with. Those connections then allowed me to confirm that "I" wasn't my fault and therefore meant I could correct the behavior and begin to re tool myself.

Identifying with just one of the traits is painful enough yet alone scoring in the top of the class so mind your spirit as you continue to explore. Thank you for sharing, your thoughts are much appreciated and they help me to confirm that I am not alone in "this".
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