Thanks for your input. My husband is on Suboxone (two years now) and is also an alcoholic. He has chronic back pain from Ankylosing Spondylitis (hunch back disease) so he went from Norco to oxy to Suboxone in about 12 years. He had a turp operation and since can't reach orgasm and 0 desire. I am accepting of the sex loss trying to treat him as I would want to be treated, in a loving way. Wonder if he'd get it back if he could get off the drugs/alcohol....? He is desperate to have sex again.