Thank you so much
Especially to the last four posters. This advice is very very helpful. I am very young (24 to be exact). It's really hard (as I know you all understand) to suddenly see someone you love for what they really are aside from the things you want to only see and keep seeing. Like a veil is being lifted to reveal a messy room you don't want to deal with. I will certainly look into the information provided. Again, thank you all so so much