Sorry to hear that Pre, anyway you can come up with a viable excuse not to attend the wedding....if she's your closest friend even the truth might do, she may understand that traveling somewhere isn't cheap, especially for a mom going through a divorce! Plus, it sounds like you'd be facing a lot of temptation in the midst of so much stress, never a good combo in my experience! Hugs....sorry you're feeling down! We're here for support!