Well Santa, unexpected pregnancy is not something I'm worried about in this situation. Not only am I strict about birth control but I have a condition that will make ever getting pregnant very hard. It's a sensitive subject for me. I'm more focused on my future with and if that's a possibility. I'm not being forced to marry him and be legally stuck to him. If I wasn't interested in trying to get us both help so we can possibly work it out, I wouldn't be here. It would solve my problem to just break up with him yes, but is it the right thing to do. Just because we aren't legally forced to be together (married) doesn't mean I don't want to do what I can for myself, him and us as a couple in this situation. I can't say I know better than anyone else. Perhaps I'm just a stubborn for love young person, but I can say I don't feel right about just cutting my loses and leaving just yet.