Yes, I totally agree with everyone here. Him acting like a selfish man-child to control YOUR life is completly dishonorable and his current path is one of little successes scattered amoung a consistent and succesive destruction. This is YOUR 80-100 years... he is responsible for his 80-100 years. If he iggnorantly destroys his life because he cant face reality and grow up then why would you choose to accept that same future when you know better.
Someone once said that being unaware of bad decisions is beinging iggorant. Being aware and continuing that behacor is being a fool. It sounds like he is still in the iggnorant stage. You however have the power to avoid being a fool. I am so sorry if this is too harse but I feel compelled to express it.
Much love and beat of luck!