I think when you love a person you treat them in a certain way which does not include emoational abuse. I also don't think drug use is an excuse for that sort of behavior. That is my opinion. I know I deserve more than that out of life, and that you do too.
It is hard to muster the courage to face it. For myself there came a time I just knew I could not let it go, not one more time. I literally put my hand on my XAH's chest and backed him out the door and told him not to come back. It was horrible and my children were there, but it was also an IMMEDIATE sense of relief. I knew I was done.
Tight Hugs XXX