We met at the park yesterday so DD could see the dog (and me too..I miss the dog lol). Poor bandit (the dog) cried when he saw us! he tried to come home with us too. DD was more upset about leaving him than anything. That was probably the hardest visit.
He wants to come by to see her tonight at the house even though I have repeatedly asked him for every other day. I want to outright say no. Will that look bad in court? she is so clingy with me after she sees him. She won't let anyone else get near her and she won't let me leave her side.
I think you are right dandylion....its better if he doesn't come to the house.
The phone calls aren't so bothersome...she would get upset at first when he would hang up before she was done talking. Now she does it to him lol. (I did NOT teach her that, just fyi). She does care if he calls...shes a little ocd I think. She notices if he doesn't call or doesn't answer and it bothers her a ton. She likes things to stay a certain way. I think part of that is the lack of stability she has had while we were living with him.