Whale, that wasn't rash at all. AA is like any group of people. You will find the laid back, the outgoing etc...I think they were just trying to help by telling me 90 meetings in 90 days. It does contradict their own literature which says there are no set number of meetiings but I know they were coming from a good place.
And I got a lot of good from AA. Right now, it's just not the path for me. I think people just need to find what works for them.