Why didn't HP warn me??
maybe not everything is HP's job...maybe when your AH started drinking and things started going south THAT was your sign.
maybe HP has nothing to do with this at all - we are given free will.
maybe there is something spectacular cooking up about 3 years down the road you just can't see it now.
if you BELIEVE your HP LIED to you EVER, then babe you need a new one. that's some pretty selfish thinking....that all this is being done TO you, that your God would dupe you, cheat you, set you up. like the Big Guy has nothing better to do but to personally mess with YOU.
PEOPLE change. God does not. over the course of 19 years, your husband changed. and it wasn't an over night thing...you had plenty of time to observe.
and now here you are. about to make some big changes.
life won't always go as YOU want it to, but it will work out exactly as it should, in time.