Don't know it is any help, but it is one thing I cannot figure out either -- why God would send me an addict for a wife?
She behaves horrid to me and treats me horrid.
And for the most part I am a pretty nice guy, at least as far as I can tell.
Then she makes up more horrid lies to justify her horrid behavior.
Went to sleep last pondering that. I do not deserve to be treated horrid, and she really does not deserve a nice guy, like me.
Dunno the wedding ring stuff makes much difference in it. I follow it does to you, as it is a symbol to you, but we were never really legally married, per se, but it all seems about the same.
About the only thing I am pretty clear on is the "Ye shall know a tree by its fruit," stuff. Yunno -- Jesus 101. You can tell what you are dealing with by what it does.
A dog Barks.
A cat goes Meow.
A cow goes Mooo.
and
Horrid People behave Horrid.