cup - i too have not had a good cry in a long time - i think the last time was when i had to put my 19 yr. cat down which was 1 1/2 years ago. I used to be a crier, probably almost 30 years ago. But I seldom cry now - i do find myself on the verge sometimes (different things prompt it) but then always find myself stifling it - must be some kind of coping mechanism i have put into place altho i have no idea why!