Whalebelow - thanks for the input. To your point I did meet my wife across a pile of coke at a night club so it's not like I married Marry Poppins. I was attracted to her craziness at first, and she was the life of the party. We didn't have children though, and that has made a big difference in the marriage.
I came to realise that a very well rounded, wholesome, sane thinking woman, would not have looked upon me as marriage & breeding material.
I found this to be an extraordinarily depressing statement brother. How did you come to that conclusion?