Moving is incredibly stressful.
I'm just startinbg to come back to normal now - 2 weeks after.
I think you have to accept a certain level of stress...but all you can do is your best.
You have no control over the weather, Pam...the windows will get done, one way or the other
and yes - divest yourself of everything you can - you'll thank yourself post move...you can always buy new stuff
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