If I even get a glimmer of feeling for him I read hope works post. And there is another one about collecting red flags. Hahaha. It was tough to hear but totally true. I'm so glad I found this site. I feel stupid but I guess we all do. I'm just glad he didn't keep up his farce after we were married. If he hadn't changed so much so fast I would have been really roped in. I'm not going to have any contact with him at all. He doesn't love me he never did he never will. I'm preparing for him to try to come back. He won't get his stuff from my place. I'm packing it up this weekend and putting it on the balcony so I can throw it over to whomever he gets to pick it up. Everyone here is fabulous. No one judging me for getting caught in this spiders web. Thank you. I already feel stupid. Lol. But!!!!! It's never too late to make a change in your life. I'll be reading stickies today at work.