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doureallycare2 I agree with everything you said except this... how do we really know if he is a monster? how do we know that I'm not the one projecting, over analyzing, blowing things out of proportion, because maybe deep down I know were not a good fit. I have done nothing but break up with guys the whole last year. most only got a month and some were really sweet guys. However I ran from them all.. Wonder if I'm running again and its me not him....?
I have a lot to talk to the therapist about today.. ugh...
If the best thing you can say about a guy is that he might not have murdered his ex, then I think you are wise to run from him. Even if he didn't kill her, and fwiw I don't think he got his hands dirty, at the very least he played mind games with her until she took her own life. That is a monstrous act.