I know right! I'm crazy to even have gone out with him once I found out.. especially since he told me he did sleep at his property that night but in his truck... he planted flowers by the spot on his pond where he pulled her out because her family wouldn't allow him at the funeral and he couldn't find her grave. He said he had so much remorse over not telling her he loved her that if it was suicide and not an accident maybe he could have prevented it....
he talked about her all the time and you could tell it was a heavy burden.. that's why I really don't think he did anything.. but why the heck take the risk right? The only thing I can think is because I was already, emotionally and physically attached to him.
I rushed in to fast and didn't do my due diligence..!!!!
now I put that together with what I know about him: His drinking, jealousy, control issues along with his words not matching his actions I think at the least he drove her crazy....