Originally Posted by biminiblue

You really don't have any say over what she is doing.

Work on yourself.

You cannot predict the future, neither can anyone else. She might die from this, I wouldn't hold on waiting for her to change and "see the light". Even if she were to complete rehab, she would not be a good candidate for a serious relationship for at least a year. Let her go. You are young and there are many suitable women who would love to build a relationship with a young guy with ex-military training and the education to work.

So, get a job, stop worrying about an alcoholic. You broke up with her - so common courtesy is to let her keep the ring. Get the cops to go over to retrieve the rest of your personal belongings.

I made a couple jumps (sport jumps) with The Golden Knights back in the day. Are you going to keep jumping? I loved it.