Hi Spia,
I think it's important to remember that if things do get better for people on these boards, they may not post as much or even come on this site anymore. The people on these boards are still struggling and seeking support. But some addicts to get sober and get better. I am one of them, although I am now seeking support for my AH. There is always hope. My parents and family hoped that I would get sober and get better, and I did. I hope your relationship works out for you.