There are success stories! I think people tend to turn to SR when things are going bad. That is when we are looking for support. That is just how it goes.
I have a few good friends that have been through this with their RAH, or their parents went through this and they have successes to share.
While I am new to this whole thing, I have hope (for me and my kids) and feel my journey with be a success, regardless if my marriage survives or not.