mamahawk, you know you need the surgery, you trust your doctors, lay off the googling, it is only upsetting you and mostly exaggeration. like those silly websites that play on people's fears. If you have questions and worries, take them to your surgeon.
I never have considered posting about allergens to be an argument and I specifically made the post general if you read it..
.but since TOD's mentions that I did not express my condolences, I am so very sorry for your husband's cousin's sister's passing. and hope she is at peace. was she a young woman?
And since you read everything, please do reciprocate your best wishes for my brother's adenoid cystic carcinoma bone scans every 6 months. His new tumor was benign thankfully. He is beating the odds...the survival rate for this cancer is less than 25% over 10 years...he is at year 4, clean.
see you on the animal thread...I have 5 cats and a little Pomeranian. thankfully everyone has control of their sphincters, lol
