soverylost, sorry you're feeling so bad right now. However, your A's behavior is no big surprise. He told you he was quitting. What actions did you see to support that? One of the most important things I've been told here regarding what is real and true is to go by someone's
actions, not their words.
I can't really say whether you should tell him you know about the bottle or not. If you tell him about it, hoping that it will make him feel bad and
really quit drinking, you're probably going to be disappointed.
The best thing for you to do right now, in my opinion, is to find ways to take care of yourself. Stop worrying about him and find ways to get support for you. Think about the life you want versus the life you have. What do you want to change
that is in your power to change?
I may have posted this link to you before, but it bears repeating, especially item #10:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...l-problem.html
Wishing you strength and clarity.