I went over boundaries with him last night and I didn't feel guilty at all. (it's amazing when the mind and heart agrees)
Good for you! now, caveat....always remember who is responsible for adhering to your boundaries. hint...it ain't him. he may very well "forget" at some point what was said, or he may reason that he didn't think you meant EVERY Thursday, or that you meant no ALL the time, or that he wasn't really just dropping by per se, he thought he saw smoke coming from the upstairs bedroom and was concerned for your safety (when in fact you were in the backyard grilling dinner). you gotta be your own guard dog, patrolling the perimeter.