Originally Posted by
Nuudawn 
What will you offer the relationship you desire?
That is a great question, and potentially very helpful for you man.
Doesn't have to be a long list, but give us a list of three things you can bring to the relationship are looking for.
(I am sure there are dozens of things, several big but most little, when you think about it)
NOW, add alcohol to the picture........write a couple of words about how abusing alcohol affects each of those things you are planning on attracting a mate with.