Nate,
Those are not the types of girls you want. Rural oilfield living is difficult, I have been around it all my life. Maybe you should focus on your career and see what that does for you. Being sober and drugfree is a huge positive for the oil patch. You should be able to do very well for yourself and put a way a lot of $$ unlike the people who do it without saving any money. Then when you move up to being a pusher or rig supervisor you will have less of a difficulty finding the right woman. Oilfield work is difficult, there are simply not many women around. Good luck to you and congrats on the 6 months.