The right girl will come along for you, when you least expect it. I always find that I meet people when it's really not convenient - eg heavy work load to get through (I'm self employed). I wonder though how 'gorgeous' these women were, without the old 'beer googles'
I know from experience, the people I thought were wonderful when I was drinking and they turned out to look like pigs nether-regions, when I'd sobered up