I banned texting. Seriously. It's too reactionary and imo a cowardly way to communicate. My family used it for everything , even reporting really bad news. My dad used it to argue with me, my exah thought he could start using it too but I absolutely refuse to answer texts of any sort unless they are from trademen's telling me what time they are arriving or day to day stuff like that. I just turn off notifications so I can't hear the ding. Funnily enough exah is not interested in phone calls so it's peaceful around here now.