Originally Posted by
ResignedToWait 
Would it be horrid of me to have a bottle of vodka anonymously delivered to her home, strategically timed before the court date so that I can be sure she isn't in a sober phase at that time?
that would be a very cruel thing to do
note
even when she goes to court if she is a week or two sober
the courts don't give that much credit
they have seen it many times before
short term sobriety
usually the courts are looking for a stable track record
say at least 6 to 12 months without a drink
and proven with an AA signed court slip or a letter from a counselor gets most recognition
if she looks good in court you can recommend to the judge
please have her prove being sober for a while with a court slip
M-Bob