Old 08-20-2014, 11:14 AM
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Meraviglioso
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Think long and hard about this. I am also of the thought that you shouldn't give up everything just because you are sober, but you need to think about what you can and cannot handle. For example, my alcohol of choice is wine. I have foudn that I can serve and watch others enjoying wine at my own home when I entertain. It isn't easy per se, but doable. I feel safe and ok in my own home. But I have found that going out is a challenge. I cannot go to parties or dinners comfortably yet. This is just me and my example. Maybe you can enjoy a concert without alcohol but you can't host a party at your home with everyone drinking. YOu need to think about it and decide for yourself. But, put your sobriety first, if there is any doubt, don't go.
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