Hobbers:
Its funny you should even bring this up. I actually gave my Tesla tickets (showing my age) away to some friends as I knew there was no way I could deal with the live music / not drinking at this stage of the game. I love concerts.
I know I just posted about going out with friends tonight. But some situations I "feel" I can handle and there are some I know I wont. I actually cancelled my plans tonight too. I am just not there yet.
You know what you can and cant do at this stage of the game. I agree with Alaskachick, we cant hide under a rock. But I am under the thought..."all in due time." If you do go, be strong and stay the course and have a blast.