babe 30 1980, my husband was never home worked 3rd shift.. I did not drive. had 3 under 11 years of age.. the oldest almost died of an illness.. had to dress us all for the winter get on a bus go 3 miles and have to get off and walk 2 miles in the snow .. no kidding.. do a youtube Ivan Roseland he is now 44 and has done a talk on that day and how he became ill.. in a few months found my husband was sleeping around at work.. went to sleep in a railroad car and ended up in MO and called me to find him a way home.. you have got to be kidding.. in the spring started divorce papers it took 4 years.. my children and I would hid in the woods and camp to keep away from him.. their school never knew of the problem that was the 80's..
you can do this why because you are Woman hear Us Roar.. get tough, show the nails and hid the car.. hahahaha give him the chase of a life time.. and be smart.. you have a bunch of us here that have had to go thro the same old same ole. hahaha
prayers and tea and hugs ardy