Originally Posted by
horsegirl 
I hope so , I have never been in a relationship with a quote healthy person , I have no idea. In my mind , I would think that there are things that come up , missed appointments , late getting home, plumbing not getting fixed exactly when you want it ect.. but i see a healthy relationship as one of communication. If a dinner will be missed you would get the appropriate call and be able to trust that what the eother person says is the truth. My guess anyway
Lol hg, I've been in a couple of normie relationships, years ago. They didn't work out because
I was so messed up.
To answer your question Blossom, I dealt with this type of passive aggression for years. He would promise to do x for days, weeks, months. I finally learned to just interpret that as "X is NEVER going to happen." Of course if I did something about x, he would rage at me and pout. "I told you I was going to take care of that, blah blah."
I think this stuff is par for the course. I remember my A father doing it too.