His behavior is frightening to me ...just reading it... You need to realize that this is NOT right, you sound so resigned. and you should NOT be. this is YOUR home, you work for it and pay the bills.. He lives there because you ALLOW him to.. not because he is entitled to have this home and all the perks.
Chic, think like normal folks...my daughter is out the door and I did not care if she lived in her car...she wasn't coing back here. she survived just fine....and she has her own idiotic *issues*, I don't even bother myself, I contact her husband to give her messages in case she wishes to acct like a human...NO CONTACT. ( I am talking about my brother's cancer biopsy...she refused to acknowledge my breast biopsy).