You know, I dont think I could have done this much without the things I have learned, and the stories of others experiences. what normal boundaries are. hearing the courageous stories of others, makes me know I must try to do something different.
Lauren, you are helping. I also appreciate the honesty here, so I can face that this will be painful. When you have never stood up to someone and said no, and dealt with their wrath, its new territory, you are right. yes, his dad is truly a selfish person... I think I would have nightmares if I was him.
And thank you for the prayers. I think they are keeping me calmer than I would be otherwise. Keep them coming, please!
love and hugs to all.