Originally Posted by
stella27 
Here's what I covet lately:
1. eyelash extensions
2. a certain dress in a pricey boutique that I think would just complete my life.
3. more manicures.
4. a boob job.
When I look beneath the surface of all my have-to-haves, I see a desire to be attractive to other people.
Could that POSSIBLY be related to being divorced? To being invisible to my husband for 14 years? To being told I was sexually undesirable?
Is there a better way to get those needs met? Definitely.
Do I still want and obsess over those things? Yes.
This is how I know I have a problem.
Is it wrong that this just cracked me up?? These little things #1-3...then wham #4....new boobies!!!
My spending spree went on my house. When my X moved out, I did some repairs that I desperately needed done. Also did some things I did not. He says it was just me trying to erase him from the house....maybe so.