The best advice I can offer is to be brutally honest. No matter how much they've hurt us, that instinctive need to protect them can kick in at the worst possible times. This is not one of those times where you should soften the blow. I actually had someone from my AM's therapist call me today to ask if I thought she had a problem. Well, let's see. I haven't spoken to her in over two years and neither have my kids. Her mother moved out because of her shenanigans, and her house was auctioned off today on the courthouse steps. Yep, I'd say she has a problem. No sugarcoating here.