SeriousKarma...you seem worried about how your daughter views you.
She has absolutely no right to sit in judgement of you!!!!!!!!!!
She has not walked in your shoes. If she ever makes a demeaning remark to you about crying (even in humor)...just tell her (sweetly) that her opinion of your emotions are none of your business. End of discussion. You need not be ashamed of how you FEEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dandylion