remember!
I had a codie realization
When someone asks you the simple question "How are you?", how do you answer it? (out loud or even in your head?)
For me, I will always answer with how my ABF is doing, what he is angry/upset about, doing, looking forward to. I have completely forgot about me.
How am I? What am I feeling this very minute? am I even aloud to think that?
Yes. Remember, We have feelings. Real ones, that matter.