As big bk says, no pun intended, we've ceased fighting anyone & anything. If a mtg doesn't fit you, go elsewhere. I realized aa doesn't need me, I need it so my choices are either to accept it or change it! Good eg is mtgs where folks use profanity while sharing; doesn't bother me much but when Lord's name is taken in vain repeatedly, I'm ready to jet out the door. Learning love & tolerance but there's gotta be boundary for me @ least
Get grounded w/ sponsor & network that are like minded or share some issues not necessarily agree on evthg otherwise won't grow or be receptive to correction
Best wishes