Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
it should also be noted the original OP hasn't found his own way to JUST STOP yet.......
It has taken me a while to learn this, but I often find that reading a member's earlier posts will help me know how to respond to a current post. In this case, I found it
very helpful to read the earlier posts. I'd recommend it to anyone who is reading/posting here in order to get some perspective.