Me too, Vale.
Lovemykids, your life is yours and you alone hold the key to your happiness.
I see red flags all over this relationship. Just because someone is clean doesn't mean that they are good relationship material.
If you had a best friend whose boyfriend was on sex connect sites and texting other women in suggesting ways and not giving anything back to a relationship with her...what would you tell her?
We can't change people, but we can change ourselves and maintain our own values and respect even when others have none of their own.
It is entirely up to you whether you choose to continue living like this or moving on. Thinking he will change and become the dream man you envision may be simply an illusion, and illusions are not reality and cannot bring us real happiness.
My heart goes out to you. You have some hard choices to make if you want a happy and wonderful future...the kind you deserve.
Hugs