LittleRed.....He is drinking every day; he is lying about it and trying to hide it (from you).
This points to alcoholism.
Do yourself a favor and read all the stickies at the top of this page. Learn everything you can about this disease.
Read from the thousands of real-life stories on this forum.
Go to the forum on Children of Alcoholics and read the stories there.
Alcoholics are not good material for marriage or parenthood.
At least, educate yourself as to what you would be in for if you hitch your wagon to this star.
dandylion