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Old 07-30-2014, 08:48 AM
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ResignedToWait
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Originally Posted by amy55 View Post
The reason he wants to talk is because I got upset a few nights ago. I drove out to meet him for pizza, then got upset that he didn't call me to make sure that I got home safely.
Hope you had fun!!

This will probably all be solved by your awesome picnic and a moot point, but just wanted to say that there are two ways of looking at that situation where you got upset..depending on the person.

Some people might think that calling to make sure you got home is the right thing to do, and that's a perfectly valid viewpoint.
However, some people might think that NOT calling to make sure you got home is the right thing to do, because it could easily be construed as "controlling", and that's also a perfectly valid viewpoint.

Try not to be too critical of him for not calling, he may have thought he was doing the right thing by not making a "controlling" phone call!
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