So comforting to see these posts. I like the idea of waiting it out for a year. My husband was the "big drinker" for years in our marriage and it has just been since the kids got out on their own that I had picked up a great liking for wine. He has decided that he can drink moderately (but, it still seems like a lot to me). And, sometimes he has picked up a bottle for me even though he knows I am not drinking. We really have a lot to navigate in this next year, right?!