Hey there! Put your marriage on an imaginary "shelf" until you have one year of sobriety and then re-visit your concerns. You could even write all your concerns down on paper and put them in an envelope that says "do not open until xx/xx/xx. (Your one year date) It's amazing how much things change in a year.
Maybe just continue to be cordial & nice but don't deal with any serious issues?
Best of luck and great job on your sobriety! Keep it up! You're amazing!!!
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