Well, this past evening was a huge shocker to me. I was going one step at the time, not expecting much avoiding trouble, and it really was not that bad. We have not argued for months.
And of course we are legally married in this country (5 years of tax returns filling jointly... hellloooo). But how he aims for your heart, my jaw dropped after hearing this.
I secured myself financially and would be able to remove myself fast if really really required (as in get my own place).