At times like this I am mighty glad God is around. People have feet of clay, they will always let you down. I place my dependence on the God of my understanding. When something like this happens it hurts for sure, and I ask God to help me through it and tell me what His will is for me. There is always a lesson and an opportunity for growth in every bit of adversity.
In life I make decisions, take actions, and generally try to do what I think God's will is for me (most of the time). But I leave the results in His hands, and it always seems to work out for the best, even if I don't think so at the time.