Windancer, you are stronger than you think, you got it out of your mind and you're not giving up is a good thing. I think I would find a doctor who doesn't know your mother at all, and I would make it clear to my partner don't ever flaunt drinking in my face again. sound to me ya got some control freaks trying to dominate you. Yea it's probably time to set some boundaries, we are all rootin for ya.
