Originally Posted by
Windancer 
Stupid cycle.
I get clean (ish). BF is happy with that. he likes to drink too, but doesn't think he has an issue like I do. After approx. 7-10 days, he brings up possibly drinking (well, dammit that's my AV door!!!!!). then he is pissed, and I am in the dog house. and the cycle begins
Sounds like you may need to start setting some concrete boundaries. It's your sobriety and entirely your right to ask him to respect it.